“Will you be my bridesmaid?” Bride
The Western bridesmaid tradition is thought to have originated from Roman Law, which required ten
witnesses at a wedding in order to outsmart evil spirits (believed to attend marriage ceremonies) by
dressing in identical clothing to the bride and groom, so that the evil spirits would not know who was
getting married. Today, bridesmaid dresses are still commonly chosen in harmony with the look and feel of the
wedding. bridesmaids continue to serve a vital role in the wedding process, not by fending off hexes and robbers,
but by providing key support staff for the bride. No wonder we rely on our dearest friends and family members! The
payoff is that walk down the aisle, looking absolutely beautiful in a gown that is stylish, sophisticated, colorful and
absolutely wearable.
In general, brides start shopping for bridesmaid dresses shortly after they order their own gown - about six to
seven months before the wedding. The reason for the early preparation is that complex orders can take awhile
to be delivered: You want to leave plenty of time to deal with fittings, alterations and, of course, Murphy's Law
(whatever can go wrong will go wrong).The bride usually brings at least one of her bridemaids along. She wants
the bridesmaids to have a voice in choosing the dress so that they will feel confident wearing it, even if that means
different styles for each bridesmaid. When deciding where to purchase, A full service bridal shop is the most
comprehensive choice, providing information and advice on measurements, sizing, undergarments, shoes and order
time. They provide fabric swatches and usually have seamstresses on staff to perform all necessary alterations. They
are professionals, and usually charge slightly higher prices than discount retailers. However, it is their business to
make sure the wedding day goes perfectly. Brides often find it convenient to choose one shop they like and purchase
everything there, including the bridesmaid dresses, shoes and accessories. With so much to do convenience is
paramount.
When all is said and done, the payoff for being a bridesmaid is that walk down the aisle, looking absolutely beautiful
in a gown that is stylish, sophisticated, colorful and absolutely wearable. (And the reception, of course!)
“A Joy Shared Is A Joy Doubled”.
Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe